Sri Amma Bhagavan Miracles

This is a Experience sharing of a person named Rajeev Joshi from Mumbai who had attended Pitru Shanti Havan at ONENESS UNIVERSITY in Chittoor. I would like to share my experience of “Pitru Shanti Havan”: My mother suffered an accidental death when I was of around 1 month and my upbringing had been done by my father. All through my life I had been holding “My God” responsible for depriving me of motherly love. Life showered on me several other elements of happiness like education, health, wealth, house, caring wife…but still I continued to harbor grudge against “My God” and all through past 40 years kept holding HIM responsible. This feeling of “being deprived” was very strong and frequently in deep sorrow I use to call  “My Mother” and surprisingly use to experience the presence of my mother, but all those experiences were full of sorrow and deep grief. This grief always prevented me from fully experiencing any other joy or other aspects of life. I was asked by Balagopalji to do “Pitr

Question: Sri Bhagavan, why do we listen to some people and not to others, this things happen especially with our parents and close-people, close-one's tell us things and we ignore them, same things told by others we listen to them, these things are hurting others, how to deal with them? Bhagavan: See, in a close relationship we generally take that relationships for granted. it is so close to us,we feel it belongs to me, its mine. so we take that relationships for granted naturally. so, whenever,our parents say something we feel as if they are trying to dominate us or they are trying to control us. that is the way we perceive it. if our relationships with our parents and our close-one's is friendship then this issue will not be there. The framework of friendship is not there in relationships. we are putting into framework all our spouse, our parents or brother or somebody know, where all this kind of framework comes out, where we feel they are dominating us.

Bhagavan: "See, the mind is a very good businessman. It naturally does what is profitable to it. What is not profitable to it, it does not do. When you do not accept something, the first thing is, it's a fact that it is there. You cannot wish it away. By fighting with it, you are creating a lot of conflict. By conflict there is a lot of dissipation of energy. When energy is being lost you become unhappy and also you become a failure. On the other hand, if you accept what ever is there, there is no conflict. No conflict means there is no wastage of energy. When energy is still, there is no movement of energy as wastage. That becomes joy and happiness. It leads to greater success. If you can see this whole process, then naturally you'll accept because it is a better choice for you. You cannot do unprofitable things. Somehow you are imagining that if you fight with it, it is good. Therefore you fight with it. When you observe that fighting is not pro